Men don't respond to words. They respond to no contact.
It has to do with whether he knows that you aren't afraid to be without him.She's available sometimes; other times she's not. No 100 percent hold.
Sometimes a man deliberately won't call, just to see how you'll respond.
It is human nature for a man to test the waters to see how much he can get away with.
Pulling back is also something men do to gain reassurance.
If he can't predict how you'll always react, you remain a challenge
If you don't hear from him for a little longer than usual, show him tha tyou have absolutely no "attitude" about it. This behavior will make him a little unsure about whether you miss him when he isn't around. It gives him a reason to come your way because he won't perceive you as needy.
If you act as though you haven't even noticed (because time flies when you're having fun), he will come your way. Because he doesnt feel as though he has a 100 percent hold on you.
A man will always want what he can't have.
"This is me, in all of my splendor.. and it doesn't get any better than this."
I am a catch. Period. End of story. Case closed.
When a man is slightly afraid of losing a woman, his excitement is piqued.
A bitch is a bitch with her actions, because she isn't willing to give herself up.
Because she is not afraid, ironically he becomes afraid to lose her. Because she is not needy, he starts to need her. Because she isn't dependent on him, he begins to depend on her. It's like a reverse magnet. The person who is least dependent on the outcome of th relationship will automatically draw the other person in.
He wins a few hands and loses a couple.
If you don't mak ehim feel locked down, he'll come your way. Think of him as a frightened stray dog. Eventually, he'll drop his guard and come around. But if you charge at him or try to corner him, he'll blot.
Always give the apppearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard.
A man falls in love with a woman when he feels he has "met his match."
More than anything else, he watches to see if you'll be too emotionally dependent on him.
If he's fallin gin love with you, he won't tell you he wants to be with you exclusively- you'll automatically know. He'll be calling you every day and he will insist that you date only him.
Men control the world, but women control the men.
Men don't respond to words. They respond to no contact.
Talking about the "relationship" too much takes away the element of the "unknown" and thus the mystery.
A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you.
posted by kristen @ 9:10 PM
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